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Friday, April 16, 2010

The way we are?

There was a question posted at another site that wondered why sissies are the way we are? Is it nature or nurture.

I would have to say it is both for me. I don't know about the nature thing. They say that is true and I believe it. But another thing for me was that I grew up with pretty much no male influences. Ever since I can remember I was doing things with my mom and two older sisters and aunts and girls in the neighborhood, never with my dad.

Heck, I guess I thought that I was one of the girls and women even though I had that extra body part. I guess nature played a big role too because I actually liked the feminine way of life and there was nothing inside of me that told me to reject that.

Now, I can't remember way way back, but my earliest recollections -- and I can see this now in my earliest photos -- were that I was a shy and soft-looking kid. Very different from most of the other boys. The one thing that I do remember was that I liked to take off all my clothes and walk around wrapped in just a blanket. I must have seen something on TV and I was thinking it was a dress.

The reason I say "most of the other boys" is that, of course, little boys don't look manly, right? But most grow out of the little boy look. I still had that look in my graduation photo! And they may have spent a lot of time with their moms as little kids, but then they want to spend time with men. I never wanted to spend time with men. Well, not as another male, anyway!

And as you can see from the previous post, I did not have a male role model like some great athlete. I wanted to be like Jayne Mansfield or Marilyn Monroe or Brigitte Bardot. I would see them on TV or in magazines and I would think, oh my, that is what I want to be when I grew up.

And I would see the way they dressed and how my mom, sisters, aunts and the girls in the neighborhood and school dressed -- and I wanted and needed to dress like that too. I don't think one day you decide that you want to do that, just like you don't one day decide that you want to be gay.

So for me, I am the way I am probably because I was born that way, but my nurturing did nothing to change that, even if that is possible.

What about any others who might be reading this blog?

1 comment:

Miss D said...

Being a sissy is part of your nature, stevie. Where nurturing plays a role is how your family - mostly your mother - made you feel about yourself.

Nurturing is the difference between a sissy that deals with feelings of guilt all their life and a sissy that is comfortable with who and what they are.

Sissys are sissy by nature - unchangeable. But it's nurturing that makes a sissy comfortable with themselves and allows them to be a beneficial part of society.

You want to be a good gurl don't you stevie?

Miss D

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Why do your wear bras? Or not?

Ever pilfer panties from a girl's drawer, clothesline or laundry, etc?,

How do you wear your pantyhose?

As a young sissy, did you look at naked men in locker rooms?

Did you ever raid a clothesline for bras or panties?

Do you hate getting erections?

Do you want to have your penis removed?

Do you take female hormones to be more girlie?

What is your mental state as a T-girl who wishes they were a girl?

Do you tuck away your sissy clitty to pretend you are a girl?

Do you wear a bra on a daily basis?

As a t-girl, what do you shave? (Pick closest choice)

What is your favorite lingerie?

You have always wanted one, but what would you call it?

Did you have a crush on a boy when you were in high school?

When you see a gorgeous girl, do you want to:

At this exact second, what are you wearing?

Do you use feminine protection?

Who was the first female you envied and wanted to be like?

Growing up, did you place dress-up with a sissy friend?

Did you play with dolls like Barbie and Tammy as a young sissy?