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Wednesday, February 17, 2016

Having a tiny penis!


This is just my opinion, but I find the idea of a sissy T-girl with a big cock to be a bit of a contradiction. What do you think?

I mean, I see pictures and videos of girls that are popularly known as "shemales" fucking not only real girls, but also guys! They do this because they have such big cocks!

I guess I just don't understand. To me, a T-girl should be a sissy, should be submissive, should always GIVE oral pleasure to men and women, and should be the one being fucked -- either with a real man's cock or a dominant woman's strap-on -- not the other way around!

To me, T-girls like Tayla here are perfect. Look at those breasts and the rest of her body and she is pretty and she is just so close to being a real girl because of her little penis or "sissy clitty."

She would make a wonderful wife for a dominant real woman! Or a man's wife too! T-girls, in my humble opinion, should aspire to be a wife, whether to a man or a woman. They should be submissive to their partner in every way.

I guess I just don't get the idea of a T-girl taking the dominant position. It just does not make sense to me. What do you think?



60 comments:

emily said...

I agree completely with you, I have been on hormones and now have little tits and a small clit. I really dont get big hung shemales they dont turn me on.

Anonymous said...

they aren't meant to appeal to us. And most of the girls have to take viagra to be able to do that in the movies.

It's just meant to appeal to the biggest segment of men who buy shemale pornography: those who have fantasies of being fucked in the ass, but are afraid to admit they're gay, so they want it done by a shemale.

ShemaleX said...

Small penis is better. Only shemale with big clitty, which i like is Angel Cid.)

marilynsturn said...

You are right again Stevie. I know from experience. I was a macho male or trying to be one. Satisfied lots of women(as expected) but never happy. Raised a big family and was there over thirty years.
I am married to a macho female.Have been for five years now. My penis has shrunk and I have not had intercourse for over 6 years. She is my husband and I am the wife.I love my life
No pressure. I can be all the woman for her as possible. To coin a phrase...LOL we have it "going on"
I am well over 70 yo with boobs "my own", home grown. Lovelife is perfecto
Blessings
to all
BTW believe it or not I am in perfect health. no medication of any kind. Born in 1935
Thanks again Stevie for all you do for the rest of us
Marilyn

Billie said...

I would have to agree, Stevie. Dominance is a man's place and is NOT intended for a T-girl.

I feel I'm blessed because I have always had a sissy-clitty and it must be said I'm extremely under-endowed for a male. Couple that to a great sense of dressing style and low morals and guess what that makes me? LMAO!

I also agree a T-girl ought to strive to get into an LTR with a man. I came into mine via an accident while dancing CDed.

During my LTR I played the wifey role every night for him for almost 4 years. Toward the end he barely thanked me before rolling over and drifting off to sleepyville!

I'll just say it ended because he made me popular. I'm looking for my second LTR with a man.

Historically, every "man" I've ever had sex with has been generously endowed. I'm sure it has a lot to do with being a man!

Sometimes they hurt me, they always choked me, lol! But I see that as just one more part of being a T-woman and I expect it.

Josie T-girl said...

I agree completely! I have a small one like these Ladies and that is, in my way of thinking, the way it should be cause the MAN (preferably Black man for me) should have the cock that is paid attention to and satisfied. As his woman I want him nice and big and inside me!

Romina khanoom said...

i prefer to be a girl who can enjoy being fucked. this is my utmost desire.

Darla said...

I have always had a thing for smaller myself. Maybe because it seems more feminine or just my own twisted reality finds smaller thinner penises hot.

I don't draw the line and say it should be one way or another but keep looking and often wind up pleasantly surprised.

Darlene said...

mine so little tostart with, has become really small and tiny after I started on hormone treatments.now its so functionless and easy to hide . i really dont understand shemales with big dicks.I think they use some tricks or other stuff to make them look big in shoots. thinking how I want mine to get even smaller and hopefully disappear soon. I dont want to think that my man would be turned on by a shemale with huge dick .eeeeyck

sissydoll said...

I love having a tiny penis and I´m proud of it. Wish it would shrink to the size of a girl´s clit so I can feel even more feminine.

J said...

Tgirls shouldn't care if they have a big dick or not. Girls are meant to be penetrated, not penetrate!

Instead, they should all wish they had real pussies and other female reproductive organs so they could one day be impregnated by a real man.

But a tgirl fucking a man? No way! Let the dominant men do the fucking. I would never let a panty wearing sissy fuck me, let alone one that takes female hormones! What a fucking failure of a man (just like me :D).

michelle ssd said...

I have to agree with you; a small penis like a clit is better. After all aren't we trying to be girls.

Danielle said...

You're right, T-girls are meant to be submissive and feminine, a cock is a tool of dominance, T-girls should have a small clit.

fe said...

I agree, but I prefer a normal penis, not very small.

Stevie Stevens said...

We have to not agree there! I have always hated my penis and I have always wished it was not there. Ever since I can remember I have felt it was out of place on me. I am grateful that at least it is tiny.

courtney coxx said...

I agree I have a tiny penis. And through the years my mistresses have reinforced it was useless to a woman. My current mistress even likes me to keep it locked often in chastity.

Anonymous said...

I love my tiny penis!!! Give me a cock to suck while I I pull on my tiny clit!!

Anonymous said...

I must admit I prefere to see T-girls with tiny penises. it looks ,more natural to me. When I start my transition and start to take hormones I hope my penis shrinks to practically nothing.

Don't get me wrong I do love a large penis, but only on men, real men. Something to suck on. Yum! Yum

MS K said...

I have to disagree since I have a large one, It's not the way I planned it it's just what it is.

Stevie Stevens said...

If you were born with a large penis, well, I guess there is nothing you can do short of having it removed. But I know that I am the way I am because of having such a tiny one.

Belinda Reed said...

It's kind of funny when you ahem encounter those pictures (I don't actively look for them) that's my thought too.As you can be open about the topic on your blog i won't hold back on saying that for me having a small sissyclit that isn't going to do anything to excite a woman (other than something she can tease me with) is very fitting cos it's penetration I desire.

sissy moan said...

Well, from my point of view that's the difference between a sissy and a Shemale:

As a true sissy i feel blessed with my tiny gurly clit and i'm happy to be the utterly sissified and submissive fuckee instead of the superior Fucker.

A Shemale on the other hand uses to be a real Transsexual and i'm just too willing to see and to accept the Superior Woman inside Her feminized body. So She as well has every right to use Her strap on or Her real Cock to show us sissies our natural place and rank in society.

But about the trick Darlene talked about: as far as i know most Shemales avoid homones to become feminine but prefer to use surgical treatment instead. So they can get both - big tits and big cocks.

Sabrina Sissy said...

i truly agree with you also. i have a small clitty and it stays soft and limp. the idea of a sissy with a hard on..mm ...well it just doesn't seem right to me. some men say it shows the sissy is excited, but i defer with that opinion.

Anonymous said...

Sissigerri I agree since i used female hormones first mt eggs shrunk to two soft nuggets and then my clitty reduced in length and girth to 3.5" erect. I remain flaccid most times when I get excited. My sissy juice is watery like my wife's and I can't have penetration anymore. I'm a happy sissy! Sissigerri

Cindy Willaims said...

I also find that small clitty's on a T Girl are much more attractive. I adore small clittys. I also enjoy not getting an erecction. I just wish I had gave in to my feminine side when I was much younger. But life is what it is.

Sabrina Sissy said...

ohh Cindy i do agree with you. and additionally flacid weak soft lil clitty is nice. i want to decrease the size of my clitty even tho i am not large at all..and i do stay soft and limp. i love it that way.

Sabrina Sissy said...

i have only one testicle now and really really really want to ge tmy other one removed but i need to make sure my wife does not suspect something tho. i'd like to have it professionally removed by a dr who hopefully would it needs to be removed for a medical reason.

Anonymous said...

Gelded sissy said I had an average penis until I was burdizzo castrated 2 yrs ago... Now I have a little clitty that's quite useless ... And have assumed my new role as a dominate sissy

Ashley Sissy said...

The smaller a clittie, the better.

Sabrina Sissy said...

i sooo agree Ashley...the smaller the better. do you or anyone know how to make it smaller, besides surgery that is

Sabrina Sissy said...

what about hormones? i am thinking of buying some online..i guess. any help is greatly appreciated

Nikki Jenkins said...

I can't tell you how many times I've thought the same thing. In fact, it's one of the reasons I started modifying pictures in the first place.

Sexy Young Tranny said...

I completely agree about this. I cannot understand why anyone would want to see a tgirl with a great big penis between her legs - it is so unfeminine!

Boudoir Privee said...

Yes I agree 100% - a tranny sissy should have a teeny penis - although `i confess it's easy for me to agree passionately with your opinion as I have a very teeny cockette!

Kay Gabriola said...

I agree with you. It doesn't make sense to me. I just can't see someone with a large working penis finding the proper piece of mind for true transgender living.
Kay

Stevie Stevens said...

Yes Kay, I happen to believe that the fact I have a tiny sissy clitty accentuates the sissy girl feelings inside of me. I would have to think that if I had a big penis, I would want to fuck girls with it. But since I have a little thing I was always shy and submissive and drawn to boys.

Stevie Stevens said...

Yes Kay, I happen to believe that the fact I have a tiny sissy clitty accentuates the sissy girl feelings inside of me. I would have to think that if I had a big penis, I would want to fuck girls with it. But since I have a little thing I was always shy and submissive and drawn to boys.

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Jay Clemins said...

As a straight guy who loves pussy and tits..i've been with many shemales cause I love a tall, thin, perky tit girl with a small clit and a tight ass. and I love to play with ass too - so why not right? Shemales are the best in bed, but I've been with a few that surprised me with big, hard cocks and needless to say, nothing happened. So now I instinctively get hard when a see guy with a really small uncut dick as I associate it with getting some ass.

slave sissy gurly said...

I to agree mostly! I also have a tiny dickie and no erections. I've also been very submissive. I do believe most of the porn is weird. Pics have been doctored up, I'm sure. Some I even think are real life girls that have had penises added. I know there are some really true beautiful TGs. But I also know being a true TG, have big cocks.

Nancy Lewis said...

To my way of thinking, a small penis makes me feel far more feminine. I rarely need it, except to pee, of course.

Sissy Faggot said...

I agree with you Stevie. But I would take it even farther. My opinion is if a girl having breast implants, she should tell the doctor put the big round ones in up top and snip off the little round ones down there. After all, the hormones are pretty much going to destroy them anyway and it's not like some woman is going to run up and beg her to father her baby. A massive cock on a girl is, to me, not attractive but big hanging testicles are even less attractive. Of course that's just my castration fetish talking.

LaurieJean Becker said...

I never considered mine to be a penis, it has always been a large clitty. I have always been able to wear girls clothes including bikinis at the pool and beach and no one has ever noticed it! And that is the way I like it, except for medical reasons I have never had a penis!

david ferris said...

I may be really out of place. Maybe I am thinking more of submissive crossdressers than I am of T-girls. And crossdressers who are into B&D. I don't think penis size makes that much difference. The crossdressing sub will be the one who gets the spanking, (and if sex is involved, the one who gives blowjobs or takes it in the behind.)

"Her" penis might be larger than the dom's. Something the dom might use to further humiliate her.

Michellewhois said...

I can see the argument about size being not only a problem but a turn off. I'm not sure how many that have commented know that if one was to fully transition (SRS) a larger penis is sometimes necessary so that the newly created vagina will have more depth.
Now if one was to wish to remain nothing more than a total sissy it would be almost necessary to have a small clitty. For some guys that wish to have relations with sissy, it's almost necessary to make him feel superior in every way and that includes size.

Stevie Stevens said...

I have also read what you talk about. As someone who never had the opportunity nor means to have SRS, I have been really OK with have only 1 inch. It just suits me. But I stand by my opinion that large cocks on feminine males is a turnoff.

robin48 said...

my cock is 4 inches and fit perfectly in panties and a short skirt. I want to go on hormones and get smaller. I agree with the writer..Big cocks on girls is a turn off.

Candi said...

I agree with this post 100%! As a submissive sissy with a tiny clitty I know my only worth as a sex partner is to be fucked by and to worship the cocks of real men!

Michellewhois said...

Stevie I wholeheartedly agree with you about having a small clitty and enjoying my femininity because of it. I only mentioned about the need to have a big one if having SRS because of a friend that allowed her clitty to be so small that they had problems with depth when she had the operation.

For me, it's wonderful to have a clitty that one can't see when I'm with a man. It's such a turn on to have him say "you couldn't be male with something that small". I know that all those years of hormones and tucking helped make me the woman I am today.

rwtopv said...

You are absolutely right. The smaller the better, closer to being a true gurl.

Anthony Hollard said...

Not all Tgirls identify as submissive sissies, Stevie. Some still like their male organs but like to use if differently to being male. its good to accept that tgirls dress and identitfy differently. Not all want to be sissies.

Stevie Stevens said...

We have to agree to disagree Anthony. As someone with a tiny organ who always wanted to be a girl and who has always been a submissive sissy, I know no other way to be.

I just cannot see how a T-girl can be dominant and have a big fat cock and use it on guys. To me that is just so contradictory.

Anthony Hollard said...

Stevie, you've missed my point. Because you were too much in a hurry to have your say about what a T-Girl should or shouldn't be. To those T-Girls that like small penises, good for you. If it makes you happy, then that's fine. All I was alluding to is that a lot of the comments here seem to suggest that ALL Tgirls should want small penises. That is too stereotyped and is an unwelcomed view amongst people. Tgirls who like big penises and enjoy using it on whomever, should not be castigated. Its their own feeling. And furthermore, the comments here are not anywhere near fully representing all TGirls. So its a generalization. Thank God my girlfriend doesn't see it like you and many others. She didn't become a Tgirl just to be a submissive creature. Even GG are not all submissive. Good luck to you and your life. In future, please read carefully before commenting. I was not suggesting that all TGirls have big penises. Cos that would be a generalization from me. All I was saying is LIVE, AND LET LIVE.

Herboitoy said...

I am a wanabe lover of 'guys who wished they were girls' and to me those cute little hairless dicks make me want to taste them

toofemme4words said...

It amazes me how so many T-girls have huge cocks. They can't help it so they can't be blamed but personally, if I were to get with another girlyboy like me I would want her to have a cock at least as small as mine if not smaller.

I too feel that a large cock is a tool of dominant masculinity which makes me all the more glad that I have a tiny clitty. A large cock should be on a masculine manly man. Preferably one with a ripped, buffed, notably muscular physique and correspondingly it, when even the least bit aroused, should heat up and harden into a rock hard, scorching, throbbing instrument of manly power.

I've been on estrogen and anti-androgens for so long my doctor and I are certain I have chemically castrated myself. My grapes have atrophied down to the size of Spanish peanuts and have completely pulled up inside the cavity in my lower abdomen and since there have been no balls in it to keep it stretched, my scrotal sack skin has tightened fully and never gets loose so visibly I'm as good as all girl even in a bikini which has been one of my prime objectives for some time.

I have always considered my tiny penis to be a great blessing in that I never had to deal with having to get laid nor all the stuff that is required for that and it makes me feel feminine. I knew by the time I was 12 that I would, at most, never be more masculine than an asexual true sissy and at least, a full-on MtF transsexual which turned out to be the case.

Stevie Stevens said...

I so agree with you! And I know that sissy girls who think like us get a lot of flack from those with big penises. I just feel that having a big penis is a contradiction in wanting to be a girl. At some point when I was young I knew that I wished I did not have a penis at all. But having no way to change the situation I, like you, am happy that it is so tiny.

Sissy Mishel said...

Hi Stevie. I love my little sissy clit, one inch and never gets hard, which fits in my panty un-noticeably. Over the years I have watch, from a lack of use and being caged, my little clit get smaller and smaller and more flaccid. Has the years have passed I have felt more and more feminine and have never enjoyed sex more without the interference of a big hard cock standing up. I get many compliments from men who appreciate the fact that I just want to please them and make them feel like they are with a real woman. I was a shy boy growing up and really never had many girlfriends because of my shortcomings down below. I have found my way to enjoying sex and I love it.

Stephanie Shaw (SissyBra) said...

You are so right. My sissy faggy clitty is about 2 1/2 inches long and it's so cute and femmie. It looks wonderful with a pretty pink ribbon tied just below the the clit head in a pretty bow. I love to fem my clit because it is shows i'm a sissy, limp. wristed, swissy, cock sucking fag and I am proud of it. I love to suck little clitty on another sissy too. It feels so good in my mouth and I love the precum. And of course I would take the sissy load of cum on my face and wear it proudly. It's so wonderful being a sissyfag and I love my little clitty and any little clitty. (giggles) Stephanie Shaw (Sissybra)

April Nicole Williams said...

Well I love shrinking my already tiny penis it normally hangs at 1& 1/2 inches to to and I don't know how long it is hard because it hasn't been totally hard in 5 or 6 years.Have made it shrunk to a 1/2 inch with out the use of hormones. In fact during humiliating experience it went back inside myself like a turtle 's head going back inside shell.For all these feelings and reasons I prefer to give all my sexual favors to little dick sissies like my self and as defined girly and sissified as possible.Sometimes I seen women at the beach wishing they had a tiny cock.Knowing that they will hand me a rejection notice
Because of my tiny little sissy penis.I have tried the bigger cocks on men and didn't get off or excited.How I got this way I'd a long story.I would love to see big cocks removed or shrunk.

April Nicole Williams said...

I like totally agree

Throughout your life as a sissy T-girl, what derogatory name have you been called the most?

Why do your wear bras? Or not?

Ever pilfer panties from a girl's drawer, clothesline or laundry, etc?,

How do you wear your pantyhose?

As a young sissy, did you look at naked men in locker rooms?

Did you ever raid a clothesline for bras or panties?

Do you hate getting erections?

Do you want to have your penis removed?

Do you take female hormones to be more girlie?

What is your mental state as a T-girl who wishes they were a girl?

Do you tuck away your sissy clitty to pretend you are a girl?

Do you wear a bra on a daily basis?

As a t-girl, what do you shave? (Pick closest choice)

What is your favorite lingerie?

You have always wanted one, but what would you call it?

Did you have a crush on a boy when you were in high school?

When you see a gorgeous girl, do you want to:

At this exact second, what are you wearing?

Do you use feminine protection?

Who was the first female you envied and wanted to be like?

Growing up, did you place dress-up with a sissy friend?

Did you play with dolls like Barbie and Tammy as a young sissy?